Restoration After Relational Breach

Where truth is faced, hearts are formed, and restoration begins

Restoration is possible—and it begins with intention.

Program Overview

The Restored Program is a structured 90-day, Christ-centered restoration experience designed primarily for individuals who have stepped into an affair or breached trust in their marriage, and desire genuine repentance, renewal, and realignment. This program begins by addressing the heart, patterns, and formation needs of the one who caused the rupture—recognizing that restoration must first take root personally before it can unfold relationally.

Restoration is approached through formation rather than quick fixes or surface-level repair. Participants are guided through intentional pathways that shapes the heart, renews perspective, and re-establishes healthy spiritual and relational rhythms over time. This process emphasizes personal responsibility, accountability, repentance, and spiritual realignment as the foundation for any future restoration.

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Because the needs of the one who caused harm and the one who was betrayed are fundamentally different, the Restore process begins individually.

separate and distinct formation pathway is available for the betrayed spouse, designed to honor their unique experience, needs, and healing process. Couples are not brought together prematurely or by default.

Joint sessions are introduced only when readiness, emotional and spiritual safety, and sincere desire for restoration have been clearly established. This measured progression ensures that restoration is approached with wisdom, care, and respect for both individuals.

This program is not about returning to what once was, but about allowing God to form something renewed, grounded, and enduring—through intentional formation that leads to lasting transformation.

How This Program Works

Restored is a structured, phased 90-day journey designed for individuals who have breached trust in their marriage and are ready to engage in intentional, Christ-centered restoration.

The journey begins with individual repentance, stabilization, and formation—providing space for honest reflection, spiritual realignment, and personal responsibility. Only when readiness, emotional safety, and sincere desire are established does the program progress into joint formation work.

This phased approach supports depth, spiritual renewal, and life-giving transformation over time—meeting participants where they are and guiding them forward with care.

What You Can Expect

A Structured, Phased Pathway

Participants are guided through intentional phases that build upon one another over a structured 90-day journey—creating clarity, safety, and direction without rushing restoration.

Weekly Guided Sessions

The program includes consistent weekly sessions that provide structure, accountability, and ongoing guidance—ensuring formation remains steady, supported, and intentional.

Weekly Practices That Foster Accountability

Between sessions, participants engage in weekly restoration work designed to cultivate awareness, repentance, spiritual realignment, and integrity—allowing insight to take root in daily life.

A Pace That Honors Readiness and Safety

Progress is guided by readiness, fruit, and stability—not urgency. Joint sessions are introduced only when safety, discernment, and sincere desire for restoration are clearly established.

True Restoration Unfolds Through Consistency, Humility, and Intentional Practice Over Time

  • Have stepped into an affair or breached trust in their marriage

  • Desire genuine repentance, renewal, and personal transformation

  • Are willing to take responsibility for their choices and patterns

  • Want Christ-centered formation rather than quick fixes or surface change

  • Are open to structure, accountability, and weekly engagement

  • Understand that restoration unfolds over time and requires patience

This program centers the needs of the individual who caused the rupture, recognizing that meaningful restoration must first take root in the heart, character, and spiritual life.

Designed For Individuals Who:

This May Not Be The Right Fit If…

  • You are seeking immediate reconciliation without first engaging personal formation

  • You are unwilling to take responsibility for your choices, patterns, or impact

  • You are looking for a quick solution rather than a structured formation process

  • You are hoping to involve your spouse before readiness, safety, and discernment are established

  • You are seeking crisis intervention, therapy, or legal guidance rather than formation

  • This program is designed for those who are willing to engage honestly and patiently, allowing restoration to unfold through intentional formation over time.

Concerning The Betrayed Spouse

The needs of the one who has been betrayed are distinct and deserving of care in their own right. For this reason, a separate formation pathway is available for betrayed spouses, designed to honor their experience, healing, and discernment process.

Couples do not begin this work together. Joint formation is approached only when readiness, safety, and sincere desire for restoration have been clearly established.

What Restored Creates

This restoration pathway is intentionally designed to cultivate deep, lasting change—beginning within the individual and extending outward over time. Rather than measuring success by speed or outcome, formation focuses on the fruit that emerges through consistency, humility, and faithful engagement.

Increased Awareness and Responsibility

Greater clarity around patterns, choices, and internal dynamics—leading to ownership, honesty, and meaningful repentance rather than defensiveness or avoidance.

Readiness for Wise Restoration

When appropriate, formation produces the stability, humility, and discernment necessary for relational repair to be approached with care, safety, and sincerity rather than pressure.

Restored Integrity and Alignment

A rebuilding of character, faithfulness, and internal alignment as spiritual formation reshapes desires, thought life, and decision-making.

Healthier Spiritual and Relational Rhythms

The establishment of practices that support spiritual grounding, emotional regulation, and relational stability—creating a foundation for sustained growth.

This process requires intention, honesty, and consistency. Participants are invited to engage fully—showing up weekly, completing restorative work between sessions, and remaining open to reflection, accountability, and growth.

Perfection is not expected.
What is required is willingness, humility, and follow-through.

Because restoration unfolds over time, participants are asked to respect the pacing and structure of the process—allowing formation to shape the heart, patterns, and rhythms necessary for lasting change. This commitment helps ensure that growth is genuine, integrated, and sustained beyond the program itself.

Your Commitment

Program Details & Policies

  • The Restored Formation Program is a structured 90-day formation journey that includes weekly guided formation sessions and weekly formation work between sessions. Because of the individualized and time-bound nature of this program, space is intentionally limited.

    Program investment and available payment options are shared prior to enrollment to support thoughtful commitment and readiness.

    • $250 per month over six months (Total fee is $1,500)

    • Couples/individuals may choose to pay in full at enrollment and receive a 20% discount

    • Monthly payments are due at the beginning of each month of participation

    • Space is limited, and enrollment is confirmed once first-month payment is received

    • Please see the program payment, cancellation & refund policy

  • Due to the personalized and time-bound nature of this formation process, payments are non-refundable once the program has begun. Clear cancellation and rescheduling guidelines are provided prior to enrollment.

    Payment Structure

    • Monthly payments are due at the beginning of each month of participation

    • Participation begins once the first payment is received.

    Cancellations & Refunds

    • Payments made for the program are non-refundable

    • If a session must be rescheduled, we ask for at least 24–48 hours’ notice whenever possible

    • Missed sessions without notice may not be made up, depending on availability

    This policy allows us to honor the time and care reserved for each couple.

    Early Withdrawal

    If a couple chooses to discontinue participation before the six-month commitment is complete:

    • Written notice (email) is required at least 7 in advance prior to the next payment due date.

    • Remaining payments for future months will stop

    • No refunds are issued for payments already made

    • In the event of significant hardship or unforeseen circumstances, couples are encouraged to contact our team to discuss next steps

    Rescheduling Flexibility

    We understand that life happens. When advance notice is provided, we will make reasonable efforts to reschedule sessions within the program timeframe, subject to availability.

  • Participation in this program assumes a willingness to engage honestly, consistently, and with respect for the structure and pacing of the formation process. Readiness for joint formation, when applicable, is discerned carefully and introduced only when safety, stability, and sincere desire are clearly present.

  • Power & Love Marriage provides marriage training and spiritual formation. We follow biblical counseling processes.

    Our programs are not licensed professional counseling or clinical therapy. This program does not replace licensed mental health services. When clinical care or crisis intervention is needed, couples and individual will be encouraged to seek professional and licensed care.

Why This Work Matters To Us

The gospel reveals a God who brings life from death and beauty from ashes—often in the very places we believed were beyond repair.

Restoration is not only possible; it is something God delights in.

Restored was shaped through prayer, discernment, and personal experience. In this video, we share part of our own journey and why intentional formation work creates space for deep and lasting restoration.

Restoration unfolds through intention, humility, and time

Restoration does not always mean returning to what once was.
Sometimes, restoration means becoming more fully who God created you to be—even in the wake of hurt.

God meets us in honesty, humility, and a willingness to turn toward Him again and again. He is near to the brokenhearted. He brings beauty from ashes. And He is faithful to complete the good work He has begun (Philippians 1:6).

This journey is not easy, and it is not quick.
But it is hope-filled—and it is guided by a God who loves you deeply.

If you sense that this season is inviting you toward healing, renewal, and intentional formation, the next step does not need to be dramatic. It can begin with a conversation.